After sending in our dossier about 2 months ago, Liz and I were put on a waiting list for a referral of a child. For those who don't know, a referral is basically where we get the paperwork and as much information as is available on a child in the D.R. Congo. This is when we will get the chance to review all of the paperwork and decide if we will be a good fit for this child and vice versa. When we were first on the wait list, we were number 11. They told us then that the estimated wait time was 6-9 months, so we decided to settle in, read a lot about adoption, and I was going to try to write a dissertation (or at least start). We expected to move about 2 spots each month if we were going to be on the "fast" end of the spectrum. In the last two months, we've moved from number 11 to number 5 (six spots!!!). We've been quite surprised at how quickly we've moved on the wait list, but we are still scared to say that things are moving quickly. We still want our hearts to be content with 9 months if that is how long it will still take. So, we are currently number 5 on the wait list for a referral of a child.
Once we receive a referral and agree that we are the best fit for this child, we will send our paperwork to D.R. Congo for review and approval by the government. This process, we are told, will take another 4-6 months before we would travel to pick up our child. Although this seems like so far away, we are keenly aware of some dear friends who have waited so long to get a referral or to even go pick up their children. For those who are in that boat, know that Liz and I are praying for you guys.


So, there's the update. The Lord is moving us forward, both in the process and financially. As always, we covet your prayers. We leave updates more often on Twitter (@howelladoption) and Facebook, so if you're familiar with those media sites, you can find us there.
Yay! Think about you guys often and look forward to hearing all about your move through this process.
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